“Don’t wait for the right answer and the golden path to present themselves. This is precisely why you’re stuck. …”Seth Godin
I love Seth Godin. I took his altMBA class and learned to trust myself. Together, the other students and I learned how hard it is to get unstuck. In 30 days we shipped 13 grueling assignments that challenged our “stuckness.” We found that our growth came from getting unstuck and challenging the resistance (fear) we had as we faced change.
Three months after graduating, I’m trying to stay unstuck. It’s hard to get unstuck, but staying unstuck — outside with the wind whipping around our psyches, slapping against our egos, and whistling the “you’re not good enough” tune is unsettling. And daunting. I have to revisit the cycle again and again and again.
Start. Work. Try. Sweat. Finish. Publish/Ship/Send. Fail? Repeat.
Start. Work. Try. Sweat. Finish. Publish/Ship/Send. Fail? Repeat. Repeat. Repeat.
The rug gets pulled out with a tug from fate. From the competition. From an employee, a manager, a brother or sister. And we flip upside down.
We can choose to quit. On the other hand,
“…You might not end up with perfect, but it’s significantly more valuable than being stuck.Seth Godin (again, still)
Don’t just start. Continue. Ship. Repeat.”
Here’s another quote about being stuck.
“If you feel stuck, move. You’re not a tree.”
— Germany Kent (American print and broadcast journalist)
If you want to get unstuck and stay unstuck, try something new every day for three weeks. See how it feels. If you want to step it up, level up, play up, check out the altMBA. OR check out any of the many other Akimbo.com workshops.
I like being unstuck. Some days are scarier than others, but unstuck is better. I’m never bored. My unconscious blow-through-the-day-in-a-haze self can rarely file its nails and rock on the front porch of life. That self is always wondering, “What’s she going to do NOW?”
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One thought on “Staying Unstuck”
A long time ago you said, “I look forward to every conversation because I wonder what I will say.” This post reminded me of that comment – whimsically confident!